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Yes Saving Habit, savings is a concept that needs to be
learnt and this concept will be extensively addressed in our next post. However,
we may not have a full understanding till we have been able to separate and
identify our needs from our wants.
Needs can be defined as must have, something you can't do without, they are essentials and without which daily activities can be challenging. While Want are non-essential expenses but make our life more pleasurable, enjoyable and adds comfort to our existence, but we can live without them. Allow me to categorize our Basic Needs into the following headings which are:
1) Housing, this should not be tacky, but decent and nice.
2) Food, I recommended a good healthy meal
3) Clothing, having appropriate cloths for all occasions.
4) Basic toiletries.
5) Means of Mobility
Asides the ones
mentioned above, we have some other Needs that are paramount to us on
individual basis, as this is personal and cannot be generic in any form. It
could range from a need for higher education to a new car etc.
One thing I need to
stress is one man’s want is another man’s need, and we need to understand and
digest this fact as we are the key factor in deciding what a “Need” is or what a
“Want” is
Needs comes as
basic first, then we make it luxurious by adding wants to it. For example
living in a big house, big brand designer clothes, shoes, bags, fancy cars,
consistently eating out, video game, the list is endless.
Can you be truthful
a bit with yourself, look through the things you have bought in the last three
months and diligently access the wants and the needs among them? The truth is I
have spent some money myself on wants even though I am a Personal Finance
Coach. So be real and make accounts.
It will be much
easier for us to discuss the subject of savings, when we have block out loop
holes and leakages.
Again it comes down
to making brilliant financial decisions and been able to stand by our decisions
There is absolutely
nothing wrong with “Wanting” things, we will keep “wanting” so many things as
our wants and desires are insatiable couple with the fact that we are living in
the age of unrealistic media images and mouthwatering adverts.
So I must stress
the need for us to be financially discipline and make purchases base on Needs
and not on Want, so before you make your next purchase evaluate and justify the
purchase.
I will
advise you to have some allowance for “want” at most once a month, never make
it an all the time affairs as it will never make saving easy to achieve. This
is just to help us establish and strike a balance between Slavery and Saving.
And the beautiful thing is there is always alternative to that Want of yours
and you can even get it cheaper at the next shop.
Show me
a man that can differentiate between his wants and needs and make appropriate
decision and I will show you a man that is frugal enough, to achieve financial
freedom.
On
our journey to Financial freedom we will have to make quality decisions at
every point in time, and as the
saying goes “we are a sum total of our previous decisions’ whether good or
bad”.
So I
implore you to make the right choices today for a financially free tomorrow.
Well written friend. God help us from separating our wants from our needs- AMEN
ReplyDeleteThank you friend, it takes discipline to separate wants from needs.
ReplyDeletethanks coach! you have made me understood that want takes more money from our pocket than need and also i realized that i always want things and spend more on them than my needs after reading this article..
ReplyDeletethank you so much
@Anon 12:25 You are most welcome, happy I can help, you can refer the blog to your friends so we can all achieve our financial freedom.
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